There are limited options for personal care to be paid for by a third party. Join me as I cover what is available. To review Medi-Cal/Medicaid eligibility check out the American Council on Aging website
https://www.medicaidplanningassistance.org/medicaid-eligibility/

Please use the Eldercare Locator site to find the nearest Area Agency on Aging.
https://eldercare.acl.gov/Public/About/Aging_Network/AAA.aspx

If you are a veteran you may be eligible for some coverage, this site can help you navigate that process. https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/